There are seventeen different things a guy can do when he lies to give himself away. A guy has seventeen "pantomimes". A woman's got twenty, but a guy's got seventeen. And if you know 'em like ya know your own face, they beat lie detectors all to hell.
supposedly body language such as looking away, touching the face, excess fidgeting are enough if you are well enough attuned. people tend to overcompensate when they're telling porkies
Truth is what you want to believe & a lie is what you don’t want to believe. Now try & prove me wrong & see where it gets you.
i agree, but you're talking about subjective truth. there is also objectively verifiable scientific truth (such as the weight of an atom) which is not a matter of opinion
jonnyboy at 09:30 AM JST - 28th May
OK, now prove that to me. Here on JT.
i wholly agree with you regarding your original point. self-deception is a powerful thing. but are you suggesting you feel the same way about science? because if so you are suggesting that 1+1=2 is also just something that one might choose to believe. with this i disagree
"Truth is what you want to believe & a lie is what you don’t want to believe. Now try & prove me wrong & see where it gets you." Well said grafton
Truth is a positive and a lie negative. Works for true things. Like 1+1=2. "It is not true!" This negative statement is a lie by definition making 1+1=2 true... which is true and follows your definitions. Now a lie. 1+1=5. "It is not true!" I do not want to believe it. A lie. Therefore it must be true. However, we know it is not.... see where it got me... confused but fun to think about.
Truth is a positive and a lie negative. Works for true things. Like 1+1=2. "It is not true!" This negative statement is a lie by definition making 1+1=2 true... which is true and follows your definitions. Now a lie. 1+1=5. "It is not true!" I do not want to believe it. A lie. Therefore it must be true. However, we know it is not.... see where it got me... confused but fun to think about.
It depends on the situation. If you have them tied up and are using a cattle prod, they tend to cry and say "OK, I will tell you the truth" after you have shocked them 5 or 6 times.
Generally speaking, an inability or unwillingness to maintain eye-contact is a good indication that somebody is being less than honest. Of course, this can be confirmed by the use of the aforementioned cattle prod.
Go through the lie, looking for inconsistencies. They get very vague when pushed for details and their eyes "swim" when they need that split second to create that new details.
Look into their eyes, not around the eyes, look into their eyes.
Truth is a positive and a lie negative. Works for true things. Like 1+1=2. "It is not true!" This negative statement is a lie by definition making 1+1=2 true... which is true and follows your definitions. Now a lie. 1+1=5. "It is not true!" I do not want to believe it. A lie. Therefore it must be true. However, we know it is not.... see where it got me... confused but fun to think about.
Generally speaking, an inability or unwillingness to maintain eye-contact is a good indication that somebody is being less than honest."
Well then, based on that Japanese must lie a lot then since they tend to avoid a lot of eye contact when speaking to each other. Or is that a cultural thing we read about to hide the fact that no one ever says no which then proves that "timorborder" is correct. Hmmmm...
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badreligion
There are seventeen different things a guy can do when he lies to give himself away. A guy has seventeen "pantomimes". A woman's got twenty, but a guy's got seventeen. And if you know 'em like ya know your own face, they beat lie detectors all to hell.
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grafton
Truth is what you want to believe & a lie is what you don’t want to believe. Now try & prove me wrong & see where it gets you.
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jonnyboy
supposedly body language such as looking away, touching the face, excess fidgeting are enough if you are well enough attuned. people tend to overcompensate when they're telling porkies
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jonnyboy
i agree, but you're talking about subjective truth. there is also objectively verifiable scientific truth (such as the weight of an atom) which is not a matter of opinion
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grafton
jonnyboy at 09:30 AM JST - 28th May
OK, now prove that to me. Here on JT.
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hakujinsensei
its all just calculus...
for every truth there is lie,
and as the lie approaches truth,
the difference between lie and truth approaches zero,
so that we can assume that truth and lie are the same.
there is your proof
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nandakandamanda
It depends on the person telling it, and the meaning of the lie.
Pathological liars are so good you get fooled the first time, and maybe the second, but then you get wise.
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frontandcentre
If it's a politician, it's quite easy to tell when they are lying - their lips move
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jonnyboy
i wholly agree with you regarding your original point. self-deception is a powerful thing. but are you suggesting you feel the same way about science? because if so you are suggesting that 1+1=2 is also just something that one might choose to believe. with this i disagree
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OneForAll
"Truth is what you want to believe & a lie is what you don’t want to believe. Now try & prove me wrong & see where it gets you." Well said grafton
Truth is a positive and a lie negative. Works for true things. Like 1+1=2. "It is not true!" This negative statement is a lie by definition making 1+1=2 true... which is true and follows your definitions. Now a lie. 1+1=5. "It is not true!" I do not want to believe it. A lie. Therefore it must be true. However, we know it is not.... see where it got me... confused but fun to think about.
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lazarus0202
I disagree. NOT fun to think about. Thanks, now I have a headache.
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jonnyboy
thanks for completely derailing the discussion
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Altria
Their lips are moving!!!
Hahaha...ha...cough
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timorborder
It depends on the situation. If you have them tied up and are using a cattle prod, they tend to cry and say "OK, I will tell you the truth" after you have shocked them 5 or 6 times.
Generally speaking, an inability or unwillingness to maintain eye-contact is a good indication that somebody is being less than honest. Of course, this can be confirmed by the use of the aforementioned cattle prod.
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jonnyboy
waterboarding references would've been more topical!
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jackfish
"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me, and you can't get fooled again." Bonus points for the speaker of those infamous words.
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Den Den
If you threaten them, they usually tell the truth pretty pronto.
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Tahoochi
My nose usually twitches when I lie.
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Ah_so
Go through the lie, looking for inconsistencies. They get very vague when pushed for details and their eyes "swim" when they need that split second to create that new details.
Look into their eyes, not around the eyes, look into their eyes.
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Ah_so
What's the Japanese for Epistemology?
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USARonin
Odds are if someone is a practiced psychopath, you can't.
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Nessie
Ah, Front, you beat me to the punch again!
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DXXJP
I usually waterboard everybody to get the truth.
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KnowBetter
"timorborder at 01:54 PM JST - 28th May
Generally speaking, an inability or unwillingness to maintain eye-contact is a good indication that somebody is being less than honest."
Well then, based on that Japanese must lie a lot then since they tend to avoid a lot of eye contact when speaking to each other. Or is that a cultural thing we read about to hide the fact that no one ever says no which then proves that "timorborder" is correct. Hmmmm...
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telecasterplayer
If it's a cop, lawyer, politician or a journo, when his lips move.
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gaijintraveller
When a person repeats a lie often enough, they often believe it themselves. If the person has convinced himself the lie is true, you cannot tell.
Ask someone if Dick Cheney is a nice guy. Answer: No. Waterboard or cattle-prod him. Answer: No. Repeat waterboarding or cattle-prod. Answer: Yes.
This demonstrates how waterboarding or a cattle-prod do not guarantee the truth, but are more likely to provide the answer the torturer desires.
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Sarge
Hire a private investigator.
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blvtzpk
They change their story after a good ol' session of traditional waterboarding.
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stirfry
if they're politicians, lawyers, or pretty much anyone in finance and sales, they're always lying
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Proffesor
I can't tell because I am a liar too
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DarkKnightNine
That would be that idiot the destroyed the world economy to line his and his family's pockets, G.W. Bush
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Sarge
Proffesor - Good one.
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nandakandamanda
They've got their fingers crossed behind their back?
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tigerguy
You can see that lying look and their face turns into a sneaky fox look.
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XXXXX
they scratch their nose
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dracpoo2
If they are doing what I do when I lie....speak with excess conviction, and too much drama.
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