Sex on the first date: Good idea or not?

Friday 27th March, 04:28 AM JST

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nurse13 at 04:35 AM JST - 30th March

Physical intimacy is important in strengthening the bond in a relationship.
space_monkey at 11:43 AM JST - 30th March

Nurse 13 you are funny. I was quoting Seinfeld!!! Please don't take me seriously :)
knews at 11:15 PM JST - 30th March

One line that I heard once that seems to stick in my mind as being true in many cases is, "Women need a reason to have sex but men just need a place". I guess if both these criteria are met, then sex on the first date isn't necessarily a bad thing.....
CMEANDU26 at 07:52 AM JST - 31st March

I think if both people are willing why not. Does it mean that the relationship won't work, who knows. But if it is a no for the first date then when is a good time. I remember a girl saying that I needed to wait six months. I liked her but got tired of waiting for something. It seems like we were both waiting for that six month day. I ended it after a week....just kidding. We decided to just be friends. But during that time. I considered us friends. There was no paying for everything. I think some women feel like if they make a guy wait they can request anything and they guys will do it. Ladies trust me the guy is not doing it for you. My simple rule is when it happens be happy.
Arkamedes at 06:12 PM JST - 31st March

I dont like sex on the first date.. I prefer for women to leave a that portion to mystery for a couple of weeks or months... It makes it more valuable and heavy when its that time , not saying if it was offered i would turn it down lol. But sex does not determine the functionalability of a relationship. Sex is good, natural and it makes people happy and relieves a ton of stress and it should be respected for that, but it shouldnt be abused. Its not really up for choices like good or bad. it just happens when it happens
gogogo at 02:17 PM JST - 1st April

Why not?
Arkamedes at 09:25 AM JST - 2nd April

i hate when the sex doesnt live up to the hype. i like more than the stick and move... i want it all. on the first date people might not open up and give u their all, or you discover their all is not that much.. if you 've known them for a while, even if their abilities are sub par, you can find other traits about them by looking into their eyes that make you accept it. then its more than just the body into it... you probably can get mind, body, heart and 'soul'... a true sexual experience
IcingDeath at 12:13 PM JST - 2nd April

I don't see anything wrong with a little hanky panky on the first date. Especially if two people are feeling a strong vibe.
TheguyNextdoor at 12:40 PM JST - 2nd April

There are alot of long drawn out opinions. The question ask is sex on the first date a good idea or not? Sure....why not.
Arkamedes at 01:17 PM JST - 2nd April

Ill say no then. It minimizes the intensity of any future sexual encounters with that same individual
sageb1 at 03:07 PM JST - 2nd April

there should be at least two or three dates.
IchyaWarFare at 04:23 PM JST - 2nd April

I think angry dragons are best for this situation.
IvanCoughalot at 05:18 PM JST - 2nd April

What are angry dragons?
Elisinhat at 04:05 AM JST - 3rd April

I think it's very easy to get a kiss ou sex, so why not?! Everybody can give something, doesn't mean that are deep feeling on that.

If you say no...well there'll be only excuses for what do you really want.
PaulieWalnuts at 01:45 AM JST - 13th April

could be