What are some first-date mistakes to avoid?

Friday 15th May, 04:53 AM JST

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Disillusioned at 03:41 PM JST - 16th May

What are some first-date mistakes to avoid?

Believing anything a Japanese woman says.
maheshvitekar at 03:48 PM JST - 16th May

Asking her about her financial status, trying to offer her solutions to her problems, rushing her to the bed..

Talking about yourself too much, smelling of smoke and liqour, sweat..

Just treat her wit respect and be genuine in your praise..look her in her eyes and smile happily thats the best way.
WMD at 12:25 AM JST - 17th May

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toguro at 07:56 AM JST - 17th May

Den Den: You got that right on. I couldn't agree with you more.
grafton at 09:02 AM JST - 17th May

Den Den at 12:42 PM JST - 16th May “Don't date a J-girl outside Japan! They are totally different in Japan...”

Could this be the reason I am now married to one? Why didn’t you tell me this sooner?

IvanCoughalot at 11:36 PM JST - 15th May

“Lighting one's farts, for instance, is unlikely to win the heart of a lady outside the Liverpool area.”

Please, please don’t tell me that is the voice of experience speaking?

What are some first-date mistakes to avoid?

Proposing marriage.
kview at 12:21 PM JST - 17th May

Getting too touchy and immediately text or email a love poem telling her you are committed to her. Doing all the talking! Such a put off.
thebottomline at 01:55 PM JST - 17th May

Already having the condom on, although it exudes confidence, it might sent the girl the wrong message!
Triumvere at 03:02 PM JST - 17th May

Wearing a condom.

What, did you strap it on before you left for the resturant, or something?
mojibake at 08:20 PM JST - 17th May

Chivalry and chauvinism are words that sound similar, and this country has a helluva lot of both. That means if you're a decent guy, you pay on the first date. If your date is a decent lady and your financial circumstances are similar, she will offer to split the bill or pay alternately subsequently.

No wonder my Japanese female friends grumble about gaijin guys being cheapskates...
space_monkey at 09:39 AM JST - 19th May

Three rules for dating Japanese chicks: 1. Don't fall in love 2. Believe nothing 3. Get them to pay (optional)
stirfry at 06:31 PM JST - 19th May

ordering tequila shots for her and water shots for yourself, and forgetting which is which
dracpoo2 at 11:32 AM JST - 20th May

Expecting the girl to go dutch if she never indicated she wanted to. If she indicates, he should still insist on footing the bill alone.
tsukki at 11:17 AM JST - 21st May

sleeping on the first date is a big no-no for me.
Nessie at 11:29 AM JST - 21st May

Never tell a j-girl you want to go Dutch. She'll show up with an inflatable doll.
Nessie at 11:30 AM JST - 21st May

sleeping on the first date is a big no-no for me

Nothing says confidence more than dozing off during a date. Women love confidence.