What is the most effective way to deal with stalkers?

Tuesday 15th April, 02:00 AM JST

14 Comments

smartacus at 07:53 AM JST - 15th April

Kill them or jail them. Restraining orders never work. Judges don't seem to get that. The inner drive or addiction of the stalker is too deep-rooted. Stalking is becoming almost epidemic in this day and age thanks to emails and cell phones. My sister suffered horrendously from a stalker. Eventually, she had to move to another city, get a new residence, job etc. Why should she have had to move? I honestly felt like getting a few friends and beating up the guy.
rjd_jr at 08:14 AM JST - 15th April

Befriend a Hell's Angels or Crips gang member (if you're in Japan, a Yak, or whatever the notorious elements are in your country). Works like a charm.
Everton2 at 08:38 AM JST - 15th April

hahaha
Razor at 08:39 AM JST - 15th April

Beating up a stalker doesn't work. It makes them more determined. While all the sympathy rightfully goes to the victim, it is also important to understand what is going on inside the mind of a stalker. I nearly went down that path once myself and it is hell. What saved me was a good friend who could see what was happening and had several talks with me so that I could get to a point where the adult part of me was able to make the decisions, rather than the craving desperate child deep down. Without that friend, I would have had trouble breaking out of my fantasy world.
Ultradude at 08:57 AM JST - 15th April

My friend's girlfriend had a stalker, very persistant fellow showing up at her work and her house. Four huge gaijin cornered him one day and when they opened his van, huge pictures of her were pasted on the inside walls. The roughed him up a little and made it clear that was just a taste. Never saw or heard from him again.
capone at 05:15 PM JST - 15th April

cut their fingers off one by one
DXXJP at 06:15 PM JST - 15th April

Stalk them back. Yeah you and your friends take turns round the clock. They'll get so paranoid of being stalked they will run the other way.
Nessie at 07:08 PM JST - 15th April

Beating up a stalker doesn't work. It makes them more determined.

But it's harder to stalk tied to a colostomy bag and driving a motorized wheelchair. Weeeet. Weeet. Weeet.
Sarge at 08:55 PM JST - 15th April

Moderate 'em! xD

"Befriend a Hell's Angels or Crips gang member"

Hell ( pardon the pun ), that's gonna invite more problems, ain't it?
usaexpat at 11:08 PM JST - 15th April

My wife had a stalker when we were first dating. I reasoned with him if you know what I mean. I'm not that big a guy so lucky for me he was a wienie. Maybe the "evil gaijin" thing was on my side and he figured he'd end up dead if he didn't leave my woman alone.
kaimycahl at 05:49 AM JST - 16th April

smartacus

I honestly felt like getting a few friends and beating up the guy.

Why drag friends into beating a stalker for your sister if you are a man do it yourself and keep your friends out of it go to jail for your own family man or mouse?
Nessie at 10:46 AM JST - 16th April

Why drag friends into beating a stalker for your sister if you are a man do it yourself and keep your friends out of it go to jail for your own family man or mouse?

Friends make a good alibi. You can say you were all out pounding back a few.
kaerukaeru at 12:22 PM JST - 18th April

Baseball bat.....
buttan at 12:33 PM JST - 14th May

"you kick'em in the nuts!!!" hahaha