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Friday 08th August, 10:15 AM JST
HOKKAIDO —
A 16-year-old high school student hanged himself in Wakkanai, Hokkaido, after being questioned by teachers over insulting messages that he had reportedly posted online about classmates, city education officials said Thursday.
According to the officials, the student was found by parents hanging in his room at home around 10 p.m. on July 20 after he was interviewed by teachers the same day about the messages. He was taken to hospital but died on Aug 4.
At a press conference Thursday, the school principal said that some students had reported the insults to the school. Teachers initially interviewed four students, including the dead boy. After the interview, one teacher contacted the boy’s mother by phone and told her that he would be suspended for 7 to 10 days.
Meanwhile, the Hokkaido Shimbum Press reported that the student left a note in which he said: “A teacher said to me, ‘You should die’ and ‘You’re an idiot.’ ‘The suspension is too much for me.’”
The school principal was quoted by the paper as saying, “According to the teachers who interviewed the student, they didn’t say anything like ‘die’ or ‘idiot.’ They said nothing inappropriate to him. I suppose the student wanted to say something in a farewell note, but you can’t be sure if the note is about us.”
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Anung at 02:17 PM JST - 8th August
J-Kids sure do have issues, I really noticed that selfworth is lacking heavily in this country. I blame the parents. I'm sure many of you besides me notice teens hanging out at the local konbini well after 11PM. Makes me wonder about thier home life, it seems supervising and disciplining thier children is not a priority for Japanese parents. Hell I had to be home before the street lights came on. Japan is the only Asian country I've lived in where I DON'T see parents take an active role in thier teen kids lives.
medievaltimes at 02:31 PM JST - 8th August
The funny thing is...a teachers reaction to a bullying student is, to bully him.
Head slapping is common in schools.
Shame culture at work.
dennis0bauer at 03:10 PM JST - 8th August
instead of asking why he said those remarks they denigrate him, causing him shame so he would kill himself, is this manslaughter?
chardk1 at 04:17 PM JST - 8th August
Japanese kids. Sometimes it seems like you coddle them, they commit suicide. You are tough on them, they commit suicide. To blame teachers for this kind of suicide is to tell people "don't become teachers, you become the sphincters of this country responsible for taking all kinds of crap without any benefit to yourself." Mental health and stress are endemic problems in this country, condemning overworked, underpaid public school teachers for not being babysitter, therapist, confidante and educator to every messed-up kid is almost as crazy than committing suicide over nothing.
majimekun at 06:30 PM JST - 8th August
Some of you should take psychology courses.
It is highly possible that the teachers never said such a thing and that the boy just wanted to make himself pose as a victim and, at the same time, make sure that the teachers get into trouble after his death.
It's called self-victimisation.
Nippon5 at 06:49 PM JST - 8th August
They do all that has been said and more. I was in shock when I saw how they treated kids and even had a talk with the principle about it. Its very common for a 20ish year old Japanese teacher (most are very young and immature now because the pay is horrid and so are the hours) to bully a kid to the point of him breaking, it is also very common for a J parent to ignore the kid as much as possible.. It could of been a plot to get the teacher in trouble( we would have to assume the kid was smart enough to figure this out and evil enough to take his own life to make the teacher pay (kind of a hard sell there), but it could of been his only way to escape the J way of life.. Either way its for the courts to decide...
knucklerap at 06:56 PM JST - 8th August
I believe teachers need to have their authority to act in loco parentis restored. No good parent would ever say "idiot" or "die you gravy sucking pig". I must admit that I'm glad, however, that this bully has been nabbed and won't be insulting others anymore.
cleo at 07:13 PM JST - 8th August
What bully has been nabbed?
kinniku at 07:21 PM JST - 8th August
chardk1 and majimekun,
Very well thought-out posts. I agree with your sentiments. In addition, I think it is high time that parents were expected to take a bigger interest in their children. Japan is becoming a country where children barely know their parents even if they see them every day.
medievaltimes at 07:46 PM JST - 8th August
majimekun - Good point. You could be right...possibly. However, as you can see Japan has somewhat of a reputation for bullying and shaming people.
Lets see if other details come to light.
knucklerap at 08:33 PM JST - 8th August
The internet bully who hanged himself. Thank god he won't be able to terrorize his classmates like that again
majimekun at 09:26 PM JST - 8th August
medievaltimes: yeah, I know that Japan is known for students bullying by senseis. But, personally, I don't see how it could be possible that an internet bully such as the boy would have such a thin skin when it's his turn to get bullied. The self-victimization theory sounds the most probable.
Azrael at 03:11 AM JST - 11th August
I also agree with the self-victimization theory. It's very much like jilted lovers killing themselves to "punish" the one who rejected them. Such suicides are a form of revenge which is usually, ineffective. Life goes on without them, regardless. People adapt and change. Probably, the kid wanted to "punish" not only the teachers, but the ones who denounced him and maybe his parents.
usaexpat at 12:21 AM JST - 13th August
The kid had problems in the first place if he was spinelessly posting insults about classmates. So the the teachers found him out and confronted him about it. The kid couldn't take the consequences and figured killing himself was easier. Read "The Burn Journals" someday if you are looking for a good take on this kind of situation. It's a true story about a kid who pulls something at school (setting a locker on fire if I remember) and decides to kill himself by self immolation. He fails of course but the point is that kids sometimes don't think rationally when they fear consequences especially in school settings.
seansezso at 12:14 PM JST - 13th August
If teachers always acted like a suicide was imminent, they would never get anything done. This serious of events is rare.
Its always sad when a young person slips through the cracks. But before we take his side in the matter, let us remember that it seems he was the one that caused the trouble in the first place. It is quite likely he is the boy who cried wolf.
It is also possible that the students he insulted deserved every word and then some. They may have bullied the boy. Naturally, there is no evidence of that, but plenty of evidence of the resulting insults on the net. The teachers are not reincarnations of Sherlock Holmes, so they probably blamed the boy straight off.
We will never know. But I hardly think its productive to blame the teachers on a suicide note alone. I would sooner blame the parents. They should have been the most aware of the situation. If they failed him so badly, what could the teachers have done?