Thursday February 16, 2012

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    DerekJ

    Japanese horror films are pretty good for the most part. There are also many good films in other genres. As jason6 said, many Japanese films are not subbed/dubbed so you have to brush up on your Japanese. I get a lot of the films I watch through Netflix. They have a very good selection that they constantly add to.

    Posted in: What do you think of the quality of Japanese movies?

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    DerekJ

    DVM, You're right about that...my bad. That said, I'm wondering if the court applied 36-6-208(c) in making its decision on jurisdiction. Applying US notions of child custody determinations against those of Japan (i.e. the non-custodial parent is basically cut out of the picture), we may have the answer.

    Posted in: American arrested in Fukuoka for kidnapping own kids from ex-wife

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    DerekJ

    Doesn't make much sense to me. Why should americans help this man when he renounced his own american citizenship to be a japanese citizen? Its one of the requirements to be a naturalized japanese citizen, google it. I think Japan should just handle this case alone now. Let them handle it the japanese way. America has no right anymore to get in the way of the japanese citizens.

    Aside from the larger issue of international child abductions, this guy gets little sympathy from me. He and his wife played a game of chess with their kids as pawns and he got burned. These kids need better parents. It doesn't appear to me that either parent is willing to set aside their pride for the sake of the kids.

    Posted in: American arrested in Fukuoka for kidnapping own kids from ex-wife

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    DerekJ

    DwightVanWinkle, in answer to your question about the UCCJEA, that statute is applicable as to between the signatory states. I TN is one of those states. The fact that they came from Japan is not determinative in this situation. The TN court properly assumed jurisdiction. TN was the only court in the US that could have assumed jurisdiction. Both parents and kids moved there and indicated an intent to remain. There was a significant presence of the kids in the state (kids were registered in school). See, tnuccjea section 36-6-216(a(4)

    Posted in: American arrested in Fukuoka for kidnapping own kids from ex-wife

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    DerekJ

    Found excerpt transcripts: debito.org Will make interesting reading.

    Posted in: American arrested in Fukuoka for kidnapping own kids from ex-wife

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    DerekJ

    flyingfish,

    That is interesting as I'm not aware that the hearing transcripts have been published. That would be unusual in a divorce proceeding. Please provide a source, link, whatever. In addition, the mere fact that she took the money and ran does not eliminate the possibility of a cheating scenario. If you would read my sentence more closely, you will see the disclaimer in the first part of my sentence. Base upon what I have read so far, the time line and more than a few years with divorce/custody clients, cheating is a possibility here.

    Posted in: American arrested in Fukuoka for kidnapping own kids from ex-wife

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    DerekJ

    This guy was cheating on Noriko. He moved to TN(the mistress moved to TN) with Noriko and the kids so he can keep the relationship with the mistress. A month after the divorce, he marries his mistress. Then he uses American law to bind Noriko from leaving TN with kids. He hid the fact that he was naturalized. The kids were born in Japan and have Japanese passports.

    I hadn't heard anywhere this to be a fact but this situation sure smells like it.

    Posted in: American arrested in Fukuoka for kidnapping own kids from ex-wife

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    DerekJ

    Klein2,

    In a previous life I was a divorce lawyer. A little different from some others because I used to force my clients to work with their ex-spouses. Didn't make a lot of money doing that because it usually worked. I only had a handful of custody cases that ever made it to trial. Took my own advice with my own divorce and it's working quite well. There is likely much more to this story between Christopher and Noriko that I am very interested to learn.

    Posted in: American arrested in Fukuoka for kidnapping own kids from ex-wife

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    DerekJ

    Klein2, you make some excellent observations. I never understood the notion of fighting in a divorce/custody matter. At least in the U.S., you are stuck with that person for the rest of your life if there are children involved. Why have to court impose a solution on the parties that neither may like? Sit down and hammer out an agreement that you both can live with. Too often, the kids are treated as property in these matters and it is they who lose in the end. It is well past time for parents, regardless of nationality, to acknowledge this simple fact and grown up.

    Posted in: American arrested in Fukuoka for kidnapping own kids from ex-wife

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    DerekJ

    "Police said he has admitted to the charge but gave no motive."

    Welcome to Japan, where motives either don't exist in murders such as these, or are based on a whim.

    People here are wound up too tightly, and snap too extremely as a result.

    Senseless murders are unique to Japan? Don't think so.

    Posted in: Izakaya owner fatally stabbed by customer in Saitama

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    DerekJ

    scoobydoo: In Japan, I think that where you stand in relation to the rest of society is one of the biggest defining factors of who you are, and is as relevant to ppl watching the news as say age or gender in other cultures.

    Excellent point, hannari. To get a little perspective on this, I suggest a comparative law book I'm reading called "Secrets, Sex, and Spectacle: The Rules of Scandal in Japan and the United States" by Mark D. West. It throws some light on how these things are viewed in Japan and why they are approached in the ways that they are.

    Posted in: Man arrested after killing mother with wooden sword in Tokyo

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    DerekJ

    Gotta love Reiko's coyote morning!

    Posted in: The age of the disposable male

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    DerekJ

    As a 47yo male, I have to say she looks quite nice. I agree though that the leggings have to go.

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    DerekJ

    I take my son fishing around canals and locks and though he is a decent swimmer, I do make him wear a life vest (which he hates). One little mis-step near the edge and you could find yourself diving in after your kid. Water safety is so important...too many people ignore/fail to recognize this often with tragic results. RIP

    Posted in: Father, 4-year-old son drown on fishing trip in Kumamoto

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    DerekJ

    Not to put a wet blanket on anyone's relationship but seeing someone 13 yrs her junior at her age? C'mon...she must be able to find someone decent in her age bracket.

    Posted in: Aki Hoshino denies reports of marriage to 19-year-old jockey Kosei Miura

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    DerekJ

    Who is to say the 'Father of the decade' was not the main reason this kid decided to off himself? If he was such a great parent why did he not realize his 13y/o son was suicidal?

    Pure speculation that shows no empathy for the victims here. Obviously, you never have had the experience of a suicide in your family. A potential suicide victim is not necessarily as easy to spot as you would think. Many, especially children, suffer in silence until they pick a date to do the deed.

    Posted in: Father dies trying to stop son's hydrogen sulfide gas suicide

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    DerekJ

    why not try holding your breath.

    In the instantaneous rush to rescue, I'm that was not the first thing on the dad's mind. RIP

    Posted in: Father dies trying to stop son's hydrogen sulfide gas suicide

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    DerekJ

    AK619, I couldn't agree with you more. This appears to be a shocking abdication of his duty of care.

    Posted in: L.A. coroner officially rules Michael Jackson's death homicide

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    DerekJ

    A human opossum! Love it.

    Posted in: Man feigns death for 3 hours to avoid police questioning in Osaka

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    DerekJ

    I think it's a great photo. Good on her and any other expectant mother who wants to have this done.

    Posted in: Pregnant pix

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