Monday May 28, 2012

Xiron Hoyos's past comments

  • 0

    Xiron Hoyos

    i knew from the beginning when she got married that this marriage will not stand long because i saw her interview on CNN and she spoke only Japanese. I noticed her english not good. If the husband speak Japanese i think the relationship last longer.

    Posted in: Ayumi Hamasaki to divorce husband of 1 year

  • -11

    Xiron Hoyos

    after going to Japa for vacation i went back to my work and my boss and all colleague became irritated of me because i became too polait and saying too much thank you lol

    I Love so much Natto that my ex not japanese girlfriend became crazy of me in the morning. my ex cant stand it when im eating mine favourite breakfast. it happend two times already she vomit because me eating natto with rice and soya sauce. also then she eat breakfast not together in the same room i eat...

    and i got addicted to search for a Japanese woman to live and marry with me. i try not to be choosy and try with other not japanese woman but the relationship became bad because i like too much speaking Japanese and Japanese things. maybe if i met a not japanese who the same crazy japan ass me then i could live a happy live....

    who wanna be my girlfriend ??

    Posted in: How foreigners’ daily lives change when they live in Japan

  • 3

    Xiron Hoyos

    @ southsakai, vladrin ,ReformedBasher Thank you for your great words to me! i feel stronger and watch in advanced and finding the right person for me. i feel better because you all

    @ choiwaruoyaji, actually i dont want to put my feeling here but im feeling depresive after this happend this to me. my both parents are dead and im still young. is difficult to live without parents. and live alone without family in a foreigner country in europa that i live. but im strong person and all is past now. i will just carry one my live and be happy and find the ONE

    @ gogogo i can speak some Japanese already but im still studying hard so maybe after 2 years im fluent with japanese.

    Posted in: International marriages

  • 4

    Xiron Hoyos

    Im glad to hear succefull and beautifull live story. but also have sad story like my sad story with my Japanese Love

    last year i met a Japanese woman who was my first love years ago. she broke up with me because her dream to be succesfull was first and that time she must go back to Japan. i met her in my country.

    then this year im back with my ex japanese girlfriend which i love her so much. i thought finally i will get marry and to the woman i love. She came to my country and we have great 2 weeks together. then we stay in tough with skype. after couple month i came to Japan for 3 weeks and we plan to marry and have a family. I was plan to come next year to live in Japan with her and become houseman, (cleaning the house etc..) and looking for a parttime job. She earn good money with her business and she is populair in Japan and working with populair people on tv. As man it feel bad a woman have more power then men. But for me i could live with it aslong she treat kind to me and love me.

    I went to Japan to learn about her busy work. It was suprised how succesfull she was. and cool meeting a actor who is quite famous in Japan. i wish to say all the details but for her business i cant say about it.

    Anyway i went other city to meet her parents for the first time. but the pain in me was she was not with me as she promise. i cant understand she too busy. but at least one day we could not be all together. she i went alone with her family for vacation and visit other city of Japan and it was family day so visit the tombstone of grandgrand family. Before i left my girlfriend she told me to pray for her dead family so i did from my heart.

    after 4 days alone with her parents and family i came back to meet her.

    My instinct felt she dont love me. i felt cold. i try to put my arm on her in the bed during sleeping and she dont like it. and instead holding me in her hands she hold in her hands her cat.... i dont understand why she not no more nice to me. and very mean to me often. one people who work for her told me she is very mean boss and not kind. ok working mentality i dont say nothing but she is doing this also to me as her boyfriend. that is really unfair. i speak not good japanese like 30% with bad grammatic. i learn Japanese bymyself and i can speak with Japanese without using english in a small conversation.

    so one day she had business meeting and i was with her. her businespartner who was a woman dont speak no english so she spoke at me in Japanese and i answer back in my bad knowledge japanese language. My girlfriend correct me very rude way. instead just say normal to me then i can learn but she scream at me and become very angry that i say not good grammar wrong japanese sentence. her business partner she to her that she is mean to me and she is scary and say to me also if i dont think so. i said yes.

    i felt very sad about this. couple days later my girlfriend ask me if i dont have nothing to say to her. i said what. she said if i dont ask her marriage. i said after all she did to me i said no for now. i want to marry her but she need to change. she dont think she can she because this is her character she said. then she said ok she will change ( but looks not really) after 4 days with her she changed little bit but still so mean against me and i did not felt she love me.

    we did not spoke more about it. then i came back my country and she sent a email that she braking up with me. i felt very sad. but life goes on. it healt slowly my heart. i wish she loves me because i love her so much. all my plan to move Japan finished.

    Now im single and focusing to working hard and go Japan next year because i Love so much Japan and the language. and maybe i can meet in Japan my princess to marry for the rest my live.

    Sorry for long story, im living in my country alone without family because all my family lives in another country also.

    Posted in: International marriages

Follow us

Facebook
Twitter

View all