JAPAN NEWS AND DISCUSSION
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- Assistant Language Teacher (ALT) in Kanto region
- RCS (RCSコーポレーション), Kanto
- Salary: ¥180,000 ~ ¥250,000 / Month includes performance bonus
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- Assistant Language Teacher - TOKYO - late-March start
- Interac, Tokyo
- Salary: ¥230,000 ~ ¥255,000 / Month
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- Assistant Language Teacher - Kanagawa Prefecture - late-March start
- Interac, Kanagawa
- Salary: ¥230,000 ~ ¥255,000 / Month
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aalmeida
Okay. First of all, once your visa is issued, you are for the most part fine with any firm you decide to quit. Your past firm has not ability to cause anything issue with immigration unless you are considered a threat t the Japanese population. Im guessing you are not.
However, the threat to do so is illegal. Get a lawyer. Get on his ass. Damages are non-significant in Japan. However, trust me in this: he will not contact immigration because he will have trouble getting visas in the future if he does, and 2 you will cause a whole bunch of fun watching him squirm.
If you dont want to go that way. Suggest that any action on his part will require you to see legal representation and you are a pitbull.
Once you get a visa you are covered by the full employment law of Japan. That means you have alot of rights. It is a socialist nation by the way.
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aalmeida
I think the issue is more of proximity than anything else. Irregardless of any motives from the male population in Japan, we most often date those who are in close proximity to us. Proximity for most of us is simply time and distance. Money and a certain level of freedom can shift the size of this phase space. But if you really think about it, we tend to fall in love with people who are near us. And in Japan, for the most part, that means Japanese women. However...
I think the largest problem with most people is they live at a level of consciousness that is too shallow. Few men have a clear standard of what we want in a relationship. Nor do most women. We fall into things too often. We are far too superficial. Looks, intellect? No one here has talked about relationship depth. Falling in love is still the most powerful experience we can have. Irregardless of nationality.
Reading the posts, it is hard not to think that most people still have little understanding of how thier own views/frames affect their relationships. I dont think most men expect or even desire half the things they write here.
In the end, we all want unconditional love. and that requires a reformation of the ego and a strong reframing of the self. It doesnt matter if the girl is foregin or not. Its more a reflection of who you want to be. But there are so few men who even want to think this way. Or women. But imagine if you met someone who just loved you because you are you. no judgements. no criticisms. just absolute heart. would it matter where they came from?
Posted in: Foreign women in Japan sometimes remark how hard it is to get a date with foreign men. What are your views on this?