JAPAN NEWS AND DISCUSSION
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- English Instructor (Osaka, Kyoto, Kobe)
- Berlitz Japan, Inc. (ベルリッツ・ジャパン株式会社), Kansai
- Salary: ¥125,000 ~ ¥250,000 / Month
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- FT English Teachers for Kids - Osaka
- Kohgakusha Co., Ltd. （株式会社興学社）, Osaka
- Salary: ¥255,000 ~ ¥275,000 / Month Travel Expenses, Encouragement of Japanese learning*
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- Translator
- ZAIHON, Inc. (日本財務翻訳株式会社), Tokyo
- Salary: ¥6.0M / Year Negotiable
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nurse13
“When someone suffers emotionally that pain also becomes physical. The body reacts to the pain in the brain, so to speak. One becomes lethargic, loses appetite, suffers from insomnia.” Precisely. Stress can result in both psychological and physical manifestations. Psychological and physical manifestations such as: loss of appetite/anorexia, weight loss, fatigue, insomnia, frequent headaches, fever, joint pain, frequent colds and/or predisposition to infections caused by depressed immune system as a result of stress.
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nurse13
DJ Fuzz, I sincerely appreciate all comments even those in oppose to my opinions. I’m aware that not everyone will share my opinions and I would be naïve to think otherwise. In addition, I actually enjoy responding to questions other posters might have. This I believe shows interest and initiate interactions which I believe to be very insightful. Please understand that I did not take offense to your previous comment. Liketis, you are correct in your assumptions. I was referring to exactly as you commented. I thought I conveyed my meaning adequately.
Posted in: 7 residents, 1 nurse die in N Carolina nursing home shooting
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nurse13
I can not understand Mr Stucki’s loss not having experienced such loss myself. I can only hope and pray that he finds peace in his journey to put his family’s murderer behind bars for life. What a brave man Mr Stucki’s is.
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DJ Fuzz, I’m not being sarcastic, I’m very sincere. Perhaps the minimum/outdated security system applies to the low crime boroughs/counties. Some of the long-term care facilities I’ve worked at had minimum security system. In addition, security officers and safety precautions were inadequate or security measures were not enforced adequately in my opinion. For example: there was one incident where a senile patient walked out of the facility without anyone being aware of his departure. The facility became aware of the missing patient only because he was absent for a recreational activity. In my opinion, a few long-term care facilities (e.g., especially nursing homes) have minimum security system and security measures implemented preparing for events such as this in comparison to short-term care facilities (e.g., out-of-patient/ acute care hospitals, rehabilitation facilities). They do however prepare for disasters in events such as natural disasters, fire, bioterrorists attack, etc. In the last word, I meant future not further. Quite a shame that comments can not be revised once posted.
Posted in: 7 residents, 1 nurse die in N Carolina nursing home shooting
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nurse13
Unbelievable and frightening at the same time. I’m glad to hear that this elderly woman wasn’t killed and is on the road to recovery. Whitepocky, I agree with you that there are some mentally disturbed people in Japan and do fit perfectly in society. Unfortunately, these disturbed people are difficult to distinguish from the normal people. One has to be cautious and should assess his or her surroundings for potential threats/dangers. One should always heed his or her instinct and if uneasy at any moment, should remove oneself from such environment immediately. Stay safe everyone.
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nurse13
How is the security system at this long-term care facility? It seems that some nursing homes in the U.S have very little security system, outdated or sometimes none at all. It is an unfortunate event that could have been prevented if there was adequate security. I wish the wounded victims a speedy recovery. And hopeful, an installment of innovative security systems in both long-term and short-term care facilities, and implementation of disaster preparedness plan to prevent further occurrence in the further.
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nurse13
Whether Marilyn Monroe was murdered.
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nurse13
“You guys are funny. Of course violence is the only way to solve everything. Remember, when words fail, only action remains. To solve with fists is to be human. Survival of the fittest.” Spoken like a true barbarian. So in other words, if you say something to somebody that they take offends to, your rational is that the person has the right to physically and verbally abuse you and their action would be justified because it’s human to do so? Your survival of the fittest comparison is displaced in this situation. It applies differently to animals and human beings. Some animals must fight to maintain their survival ala non-domesticated animals such as lions, tigers or snakes. Regarding human beings, for example: human beings must be ambitious and career driven to obtain professional recognition and achievement, personal recognition, and self-actualization and self-worth. I recommend reading Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.
Posted in: Man held for punching 50-yr-old woman on Saitama train over playing games on cell phone
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nurse13
“I'm surprised anyone stopped him, usually people just bury their heads in their books or pretend to sleep when anything strange or unusual happens.” My sentiments exactly.
Posted in: Man held for punching 50-yr-old woman on Saitama train over playing games on cell phone
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nurse13
It is quite evident by his behavior that this man has some psychological issues and need medical help with dealing with his physical outbursts. Which I recommend only after being disciplined accordingly by the law. I never understood why some people feel the need to retaliate to something they disagree with by either physical violence or verbal outbursts/threats. There are civil and mature ways of handling such situations without physical or verbal attacks. So unfortunate for the woman/victim.
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nurse13
Physical intimacy is important in strengthening the bond in a relationship.
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nurse13
PaulieWalnuts, I agree. It's natural for people to experience such urges at some point in their lives. Not experiencing such urges is quite unnatural. However, not everyone give in to the urges. I agree, there is nothing wrong with giving in to the urges as people have the freedom to choose and need the immediate sexual gratification. In my case, I believe physical intimacy involves more than the joining of bodies for sexual release but also a spiritual connection that only the participants share. Experiencing that spiritual connection with one's partner strengths their emotional and physical intimacy and the relationship. In my previous comment, I meant physical intimacy not physically intimacy. Long day at work.
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nurse13
JoelR, I completely agree with you. Sex I believe is better suited after a romantic intimacy/relationship has developed. Physically intimacy involves more than the joining of bodies for sexual release. It is soul consuming and involves deeper emotions. However, I am aware that some people do not share my opinion on physical intimacy and should do as they see fit. I am a firm believer in the freedom to choose and if both participants are willing then, they should do as they wish.
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space monkey, that is a very immature statement. You have your opinions and we have ours. Sexual chemistry is based on many variables, not solely on the physical appeal of the participants involved and/or their level of alcohol intoxication.
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nurse13
I do not condone it. However, I believe parents are the best candidate in assessing the effective approach in disciplining their children. After all, they know their children the best. I believe hitting children is an abuse and in extreme cases, very detrimental to the child's psychological growth and development as well as pychosocial growth and development. There are other methods of disciplining children without the physical abuse such as: timeout, an early bedtime, or withholding a favorite toy for a period of time.
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nurse13
tanyurine, ossanAmerica, gogogo and sf2k, your comments are too hilarious.
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nurse13
Sex on the first date is not a good idea in my opinion. Like hannari, I can not speak for everyone. Women in this case since I’m a woman concerning this matter but can only speak for myself. Whether for or against sex on the first date is a personal preference really and taking the responsibility and the initiative in practicing safe sex is important. I do not rebuke those who have sex on the first date because ultimately it’s their choice and as long as both partners are willing, then why not? Regarding my opinion about sex on the first date, perhaps I’m against it due to health concerns and moral issues for which I am not certain of myself the latter especially. In addition, I would not compromise my health for just few minutes of “fun” with a stranger regardless of taking the necessary precautions such as using a condom. As I’m sure most of us are aware that condom is not 100% protective against STDS. As a healthcare professional and a health enthusiastic, I am very cautious in my daily activities knowing the possible outcome of decisions made. Therefore, I would prefer to know my partner’s current health status before involving sex. Also, I prefer not to go out for dinner or even tea on the first date (and/or constantly during the relationship if it progressed to that) but if it’s a mutual agreement to go out to eat, I prefer splitting the bill in half. I would pay my option and he his. My preferences for a first date would be: taking a walk, bowling, weightlifting, aerobic activities such as rowing, kayaking, swimming, hiking, mountain climbing; going to the aquarium, zoo; sightseeing (nature specifically), any volunteer activities, or something as simple as talking to get to know each other better. I would participate in any physical activity for the first date even bungee jumping, skydiving, or rock climbing. Basically I prefer any activity that cost less or no money and that both my date and I would enjoy doing. Nothing impresses me more than performing selfless acts as volunteering at a homeless shelter, long-term healthcare facility (e.g., elderly home), school, daycare facility on the first date. In some of these activities listed above, communicating may pose a challenge however, I believe in assessing my date during the activity to decide if he’s favorable for perhaps a second date and communicating afterwards. Doesn’t my list and preferences listed above sound like an ad seeking a partner. LOL. Everyone, this is not an ad seeking a partner so please do not respond with that assumption in mind. Perfect, now I sound arrogant.
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nurse13
Bushlover, I'm glad to have a different outlook on this topic. While I acknowledge my friends reasons, I neither share or condone their reasoning. As an individual interest in various cultures, I try to maintain an objective approach and in doing so acknowledge their practices despite my personal convictions. I believe Japan's limited exposure to foreigners plays a very minimal role in the Japanese people's limited ability to communicate with those of non-Japanese nationality. Please bear in mind that Japan is a homogeneous country with very few non-Japanese people. For generations, the Japanese employed specific communication skills in order to communicate among themselves. Both spoken and nonspoken alike. I'm sure many of us on JT are aware of the wa (harmony) concept. Because of "wa," the Japanese can predict eachother's thoughts with very little to no effort whereas us foreigners are seen as unpredictable. This tradition is still practiced in modern day Japan. What my friends failed to mentioned however, is that prejudice against non-Japanese also plays a role. This prejudice can range in subtle amounts to extreme amounts depending on the prefecture and exposure to foreigners. As a healthcare professional, I'm trained to make a decision or diagnosis after collecting both extensive subjective and objective data. A technique I try to employ in everyday life situations. Please bear in mind that my interest in Japan does not prevent me from seeing reality for what it is. In regards to the Japanese educational system, I believe the responsibility lies with the government, the programs, foreign teachers, and Japanese students alike. The government moreso than the others. Being a college graduate of an accredited school and having a degree/certification in teaching English plays a crucial role as well. This, I believe is the foundation and the rest is years of experience. Like you, I have met college graduates with degrees in various prefessions that have very limited ability in their field of practice. Experience I believe plays a crucial role as well because skills not taught in the classroom are developed through contact with those with years of experience and new graduates get the opportunity to practice their skills in the community and in doing so develop more skills along the way and their own unique approach. New graduates also get the opportunity to practice their critical thinking skills as in every situation is different and therefore warrants a different approach. Thanks for your input.
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nurse13
It seems to me that very few Japanese people can adequately communicate with those of non-Japanese nationality. I'm sure there are many reasons. One that I have been told by my native Japanese friends is that Japan is a secluded Island where exposure to foreigners is very limited. From my observation, this is one of the many reasons. Another reason I've observed and have read from many reputable books is the Japanese people's mistrust for anything or anyone foreign. I'm sure that this does not apply to all Japanese people. However, I've noticed subtle amounts of this prejudice which may not be visible to some (especially those who have unrealistic expectations of Japan and its people). In regards to some Japanese people's limited ability to adequately and effectively communicate in English, perhaps it is due to the lack of rules, regulations, and restrictions enforced by the Japanese government on programs hiring foreign English teachers entering Japan for the sole purpose to teach English. Its a shame that foreign non-college graduates without degrees or certificates to teach English can enter the country through English teaching programs (i.e., NOVA) to teach English to Japanese students with very faulty English both written and spoken. Therefore, there is little wonder that majority of the Japanese population have limited to no ability to communicate in English. The disparities are astounding. Please keep in mind that English is my second language and I'm not one of those supposedly foreigners especially Americans who believe every country on planet earth must learn to speak the international language which is supposedly English in this case in order to communicate with those from the West (preferably North America). In fact, I'm one of those people who believe that those entering a foreign country should make an attempt to study the countries culture and language and in therefore doing so making it an enjoyable and pleasant experience for both himself/herself and the natives. Even though my family migrated to the U.S when I was younger, I was already fluent in English and so are many others from my country (mostly the literate). Upon meeting my Japanese friends, I was asked on many occasions my secret to speaking English fluently and my response was that all the literate people in my country including a handful of those illiterate speak fluent English. Perhaps this is because in the schools, all students are required to speak only English and those caught not speaking English in the school premises are disciplined accordingly.
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